Twin Flames Explained... A Very Deep Look

Twin Flames differ from normal people and make up maybe 1% of the total population and there can only be literally one.

They are very empathetic, star seeds, ascended masters, they knew their journey before entering this earth. Twin flames as they grew up felt different to other people and when they look back, they were different.

Twin flames usually one twin will have the more feminine energy, the other the more masculine energy. The male could have a more potent masculine energy (outgoing, extroverted, outspoken, more logical than emotional, etc.) while the female twin could be more feminine (intuitive, spiritual, introverted, more in touch with their emotions, softer, not effeminate). This can have a lot to do with how one was raised and their environment and upbringing and the life influences they’ve had. They very well could be and most likely be your complete polar opposite, in looks, behavior, and so on, right down to even where they happen to live in the world and many other comparisons. However, you may find once you connect with them you do possibly have some similarities in life experience or other such like common things in some form but not everything. Your twin flame is also your mirror, reflecting back to you the lessons you most need to learn about yourself, and life and what you need to heal so that your soul grows and you ascend to a higher level of understanding the world not only from a human perspective but also emotionally, mentally and spiritually (yes even if you supposedly don’t consider yourself spiritual, you still grow in your soul).

So you are probably asking yourself…. Ok I get that, so how does that differ from a soul mate?

While a twin flame is the other half of your soul in other words, a soul mate can be, and is usually someone from a soul group you were connected with before you incarnated as human here, however they are not necessarily part of the same ‘soul family’ as it were. A soul mate can indeed be a family member, they also can be someone you barely know, a co worker, or almost anyone. However the energy between you two is very different from that of what you have with your twin flame.

Soulmates are not always romantic, in fact many times they are not, but they are here to teach you to be more authentically yourself, give you the opportunity release karmic ties and learn life lessons to grow and become the best you possible. You also are not connected with the same intense energy as with your twin flame. It isn’t constant, there may not be any telepathy or such connection, no dreaming of them or even being able to sense them as you will with your twin flame once you’ve connected soul to soul with them.

That essentially is something you also have that you receive from your twin flame but in a different way. Because you are so connected to them anything you learn, and release also heals them at the same energetic level therefore building a stronger bond. Therefore the same applies what they learn and release affects you and your connection to them.

Whereas with a soulmate, you may change but they aren’t necessarily going to be affected personally by the work you do, essentially you change and the world in general around you, people around you change because you changed, your circumstances change etc.

Many times in fact soul mates can seem to pass in and out of your life leaving little if any telltale mark they were there except for the lessons they left you with or continue to bring to you the longer they remain in each other’s world. Some can be highly karmic and easily push your buttons, others can be so much like you, it’s like having another you around, while that is nice it can be a little too boring.Twin flames tend for the most part be your polar opposite and for good reason, for the twin flame relationship is all about the balance of masculine and feminine, yin/yang, both within yourself and each other.

Soulmates don’t necessarily create that within their relationships it is more about learning, empowering and teaching each other.This is NOT just some human “relationship” and we need to understand that there is an energy connection between the two people and how to go through all these emotions PLUS have that and be able to acknowledge and accept it that is a big deal. You aren’t even in a relationship with them until the both of you admit that is what you want, to be together and that you have an understanding of what this is which is not just some normal connection and acknowledge it.

Not all “relationships” have the spiritual/soul connection to the intensity of a twin flame.

Twin Flame Synchronicity

These meaningful coincidences are here to show and prove that their meeting was preordained and that they are both on the correct path together. These seemingly random encounters seem to be “signs” that something significant is at work, or otherwise known as divine intervention. Events come together with such exactitude, it feels as if it has launched us onto a pre-ordained course.

A synchronicity can be defined as two or more events that are not connected by the usual linear ‘cause and effect’ and are unlikely to happen by chance, yet occur or connect together in a meaningful way; it is the connection of an internal event with an external event. Synchronicity is a common occurrence between twin flames. There is synchronicity in the mirrored actions that occur within their lives and in the relationship that seem highly unlikely to have happened by chance or coincidence.

The strange coincidences and/or 11:11 often manifests around the time when the meaningful soul connection is taking place, and also whenever a life-changing event is about to occur. Around the time of a twin flame connection, synchronicities will occur more frequently, indicating the importance of the union. The number 11 is often considered being the twin flame number, and the 11:11 has a special meaning in the twin soul connection. The parallel life events between the two, and the 11:11 synchronicity or even numbers such as 12:12 will start to ‘pop up’ in unexpected places when one is soon about to meet their twin flame, or soon after meeting them. It will also show up from time to time throughout a twin flame relationship, usually during important transitional points in the union, or whenever powerful energetic shifts have occurred for one or both twins.

The two souls will often display mirrored personality traits as well such as caring about humanity and/or human beings. They share the compassion for anyone they meet and often put others before themselves even if that means sacrificing their own happiness. These traits are all crucial to their combined divine mission here on earth. Whenever one meets their Twin Soul and experiences these strange coincidences, know that it has happened through the intention of “God”, and this will be made apparent in the mirrored events that the two share with one another that couldn’t otherwise be explained by anything other than divine intervention. They are occurring to draw attention to the importance of the Union. And while they may meet while they both already have established lives and relationships, the mind will try to convince them of the human-made laws, but their soul and heart will put up the rigorous fight to these core value which no longer serves them. The twins may think they have formed a Love bond in what feels like the wrong lifetime for the both of them however the soul does not take earthly contracts into account and only recognizes true unconditional love. Once they meet, not a person on earth could ever hold a candle to the other. The Love you feel for this person goes beyond anything you ever thought was possible. You will absolutely LOVE this person with such a fiery passion that nothing and no one could ever change this feeling. It is a complete imprint on the others soul, you have permanently merged yourselves. And the only reason for loving them is for who they are. No matter what your “type” is, your Twin will become the most beautiful and fantastic human being that you have ever encountered. You will have a longing and lust for them that does not fade. You want to merge with them on ALL levels of their being.

Everyone's journey is different. But they will always show up when you least expect them.

Meeting a twin flame changes one’s life 180° around. It will make you see things in a different perspective before you met this soul. Your life will be changed in ways no one can or no one ever thought of, things that you yourself won’t ever have imagined would happen. Usually old beliefs are dissolved. The dissolution is not an easy process and usually this is the hardest part. Your usual ways of coping mechanism won’t work anymore. The old expert knowledge you thought would work as a solution/s won’t work anymore. You would have to find a new way through. This changes your life drastically. It changes your life big time as you see yourself in the mirror. Your inner demons creep out of your body. The things you have buried will come out no matter what and you would just be totally confused and lose control. This brings a major change in one’s life. The things you thought you could control before are beyond your power. A good example of this is when you thought you strictly were against being attracted to someone much younger or much older than you are, you use a lot of coping mechanisms by ignoring this person. But in the journey's course, your old beliefs will be stripped off and there’s no way one can ignore such a connection and you realize that age does not matter at all. It’s the soul that’s what truly matters. Your life will be changed because the people and things that don’t serve you well will one by one be taken out of your life. Inevitable separation from karmic partners, losing jobs, etc. It will pull you out of your comfort zone. By the mere thought of those would be enough to make one ‘crazy’ or ‘unstable’. All these happen at the same time or one after the other like a continuous punch blown into your face.

But just like normal, you just learn how to survive. The changes that happens depend on you. You can choose to surrender and trust the universe to bring you to your life path. Or you may continue to fight back and be hurt. Some numb their pain by resorting to many escapes but this doesn’t take the symptoms out. They are just temporary relief. The choice is always ours.

If you don’t recognize your twin flame yet, start studying your past, try to imagine and remember the events that brought you to this point, try to recall if you have a certain dream, day dreaming with some faces and personas, then pay extreme attention to your mind, not your brain, and that will definitely help, only then you will know what are you and how powerful you are, and the happiness and the contentment you will experience will be an out of this world experience that never ends, but keeps rising and rising to infinity and beyond if there is a beyond.

Twin Flame Reaction: The Runner and the Chaser


One person, (call them runner) completely avoiding the intimacy, pushes the other away. This person is jolted by the initial meeting, but it all seems too good to be true. They are too logical. Risking abandonment and the grief that comes along with it after getting deeper and closer than anyone else possibly could, is not something that seems to make sense. How heartbreaking it is to be abandoned after you’ve allowed yourself to be completely vulnerable with them. The vulnerability they felt after meeting this person caught them off guard. It was as if this person lifted them to heights they had never before seen and the view was unimaginable. They rarely let their wall down because of so much past trauma, yet this person came along, and with ease, made them break all their normal rules. Looking down from that high up is frightening to them. It is a plunge that would metaphorically kill them if they were to fall. As a defense mechanism, they perceive the other’s deep expression of emotion as something that cannot be real. They are charmed by it and they want to believe it, but it seems too magical, and maybe even like its manipulation. Their ego haunts them. The depth of the other’s feelings explores realms that simply cannot be genuine. How could anyone truthfully think so highly of them? In their eyes, it is inevitable that the other will leave them, and break them into a million pieces if they don’t get out before being completely sucked in. They pull away to protect themselves. They feel they are saving, not only themselves but also the other, from a great deal of pain. In their eyes, it’s easier for everyone if they enter into a lighter, much less risky situation. That is why they run away because they are afraid of what they may impulsively do because of the intense love they feel for their beloved. It is a sacrifice that the runner makes to stay way in respect for the situation but it does not change how they feel for their counterpart and neither does the intensity of the love connection change. Instead, the distance purifies their hearts to realize how special their bond is. Runner can not resist their beloved but they choose actions that seem easy to protect the connection and their feelings. Runners think that if they take their feelings out of the equation, somehow the situation will fix itself but it only exposes everything about their insecurities to accept love. Runners love strongly. It is a tough choice to keep away from what you desire the most. Runners are also always trying to fix the situation same as Chasers on the other end of it.


The other one (call them chaser) on this journey expects the great deal of pain in a love this passionate, but they do not care. To them, the benefit outweighs the risk. They unconditionally welcome the suffering and confusion that comes along with merging together. To them, nothing can be worse than what they feel from being separate from the other person. This one is emotional and usually gives too much of their heart to others. As a result, they are no stranger to pain. Yes, they normally love deeply, but to them this is the single unique connection they have ever experienced. They are somewhat delusional, in that they are so sure that the other wants to be with them just as badly. In their eyes, there is no way the connection is something they are simply imagining. And it is indeed real, but that is not a true indication that the other wants to be in union with them. They mostly hide the pain the other is causing them because they don’t want to be viewed as weak. This is an ego issue on the opposite end of the spectrum. They care too much what the other thinks of them. Maybe if they are perfect, the other will love them in the same way. None of this is plausible because the other already loves them. This person desperately yearns for the pure bliss they feel, the deep spiritual growth that occurs when they receive even just minuscule doses of the other’s acceptance. In their eyes, it is absolute madness that the other refuses to accept the beauty of their togetherness. The way they see it, the love between them is so dense that it is impossible to remove. It seems like wasted effort and self torture to push away the inevitable. This person could go on and on with their honest declarations of love, but the fear of rejection and seeming crazy, obsessive or annoying antics makes them afraid. They’ve already perceived the other’s actions as repeated rejection and so they are frightened that more displays of affection will push the other even further away. This person would accept the other into their lives with whatever they come with. Even if that means it is not a traditional romantic relationship. A twin flame chaser will “hold space” for the twin flame runner. Holding space means that you are willing to walk alongside your twin flame in whatever situation in life that may be going on without judging them. When we judge or shame them, we end up making them feel inadequate. Your “responsibility” as their twin flame is to stop trying to fix them, or trying to impact the outcome. When we hold space for them, we open our hearts, offer unconditional support, and let go of judgement and control. This is what unconditional love is.

Note: Neither will ever be on the same page at the same time and as a result, their existential loneliness will always be present.

Your twin flame CAN NOT forget about you, even when they do not know it is a twin flame relationship. The reason being - that the twin flame relationship can not be tame. It is special. There will be something because of which your twin flame will remember you. Either positively or negatively. Not necessarily romantically. But your image/your thought will be special for them. Even in separation - in fact more in separation. As that is when they realize what is NOT there.


It takes a while for runners to really realize that “they love you”, before they can even think about expressing that love. For them, there is a difference between knowing that they “love you” and “there is something special between you”. Unlike chasers who realize this “love” or “attraction” in the beginning, the runners realize or acknowledge it only when a good amount of time has passed. And there is a reason for it.

The Twin Flame Journey has been designed very intricately and with supreme Level of perfection. And the “runner” and the “chaser” are actually designed. Yes you read that right. If you are the one who is a chaser then first of all know that there is a reason for you being a chaser not them, and vice versa. The twin who is a chaser has got a lot of “clearing” and “understanding” to do. This is the reason why most twins are chasers and you will notice that they are very balanced or come out as an ideal human. You will be mesmerized by their sheer knowledge, maturity, generosity and selfless conduct.


Chaser is typically described as - the one who wants to pursue and confront the connection. (Wanting to make contact with their twin).

Runner is typically described as - the one who does not want to pursue or confront or face or accept the connection. because of certain inner issues. Ego, insecurity, culture, religion, age, race, society, color, education, social status, marriage etc.) (typically will not respond, ignore communication, messages, calls).

These traits can flip between the two twin flames and they both can be runners at the same time too.

When we are describing them as runner or chasers, they will be aware of twin flame phenomena. Like...

  • Both Unawakened twins - one runner, one chaser

  • Both Unawakened and both running.

  • Runner is awakened but chaser is not awakened.

  • Most likely we see: Chaser is awakened and runner is not yet awakened.

  • Both awakened and both running. Rare but possible.

Runners who feel that they are chasers:

Twin flames, when they understand about the concept, and they are longing for their twin flame, they can feel that they are the chasers. But in reality, they too are running from their own fears, insecurity, ifs and buts…. which is delaying their progress twin flame journey. So while they “think” they are chasers, they are actually being runners too. Just longing for your twin flame and accepting the connection does not make you a chaser. (Runners too long for their twin, can get aware of the connection).

There is another aspect in this which we can call a stayer.

Who neither runs nor chases; but believes that their twin will be back with them in union, and to believe this, they do not feel the need to chase their twin flame. (Energies are balanced) Every evolved twin flame would reach at this stage after going through several running chasing cycles.

What Are The 8 Twin Flame Stages/Cycles

STAGE ONE – Yearning for “The One”

In this preliminary stage, you have spent your entire life pining for “The One” that doesn’t yet exist in your life. You have this strange sensation that someone who is perfectly molded to you is “out there” but you don’t quite know where or when they will appear in your life. Although you ache for your twin flame, you have a feeling they will appear to you at some point. This stage is also sometimes spent “preparing” for the arrival of the twin flame on an unconscious level. You may learn how to love yourself before you meet. For others, this stage of preparation involves the development of self awareness, discovery, and understanding.

STAGE TWO – Glimpsing “The One”

At some point, you will have a brief glimpse of your twin flame. Whether this is through a dream signal, or through a real-life meeting, suddenly the Beloved can be sensed. The result is profound. Wonder, joy, anxiety, and intoxication quickly ensue. For those cautious among us, a lingering sense of intense curiosity and desire to get to know the person better is the result. You don’t know what it is exactly, but this person is extremely special. You may even sense that this person will play an immensely important role in your life – even before you know them properly.

STAGE THREE – Falling in Love

When you fall for this person, you will fall very, very hard. You will fall harder than you have ever fallen for anyone – and the impact will knock the breath right out of you. In fact, as you get to know your twin flame better, you will fall more and more deeply in love with them. As a result, you’ll find it hard to stand with two feet on the ground. You might feel disorientated, lovesick and “unlike yourself.” You may even try to resist the attraction, but eventually, you’ll accept the reality that you’re deeply and madly in love.

STAGE FOUR – The Fairy-Tale Relationship

As both of you eventually make your feelings known and enter into a relationship, life will feel like a fairy-tale. Your relationship with them will be perfect in every possible way. It will seem as though your twin flame fulfills every single need you have and everything you ever possibly wanted. This taste of “paradise” is what the matured twin flame relationship looks like after the next few stages of turmoil.

STAGE FIVE – Outer Turmoil and Inner Purging

In this stage, there is trouble in paradise. As the ecstasy from the initial meeting period wears off, egos start to flare up. Suddenly differences in opinion, taste, and personality arise, and old core wounds emerge out of the gloom. While our twin flames share and mirror our deepest needs, desires, and dreams, they also tend to mirror our shadow selves. For example, if you are an emotionally repressed person, your twin flame will likely be emotionally explosive. If you tend to be arrogant, your twin flame will most likely be uncertain and quiet. In this way our twin flames challenge us, riling up our insecurities. This can be infuriating, devastating and very painful. While all the arguing and fighting in this stage may seem disastrous, the truth is that it is necessary for our growth. Without being provoked, without seeing ourselves for who we “really” are, we live in illusion and fail to grow soulfully. But this is certainly hard to realize while you’re going through such turbulence in your relationship!

STAGE SIX – The Runner and Chaser

As tensions mount it is common for one partner (or sometimes both) to emotionally or physically withdraw and “run” away, and another to pursue in a game of cat and mouse. Sometimes this involves emotional shutdown and silent treatments. Other times this involves physical separation and in extreme cases, the permanent termination of the relationship. In this stage, twin flames experience a trial by fire. While some relationships last and are strengthened, others crumble to pieces. As I mentioned at the start, this is all dependent on each partner’s soulful maturity. Sometimes one partner leaves for many years and then returns, only to repeat the cycle once again. The chaser, on the other hand, tends to be the more mentally and emotionally mature partner of the two, trying to sort everything out and make amends.

STAGE SEVEN – Surrender and Dissolution

Once the shadow of your relationship has been revealed, you may experience a period of surrender. After so much anguish, distress and provocation, you both begin to open up about your wounds and insecurities. In this stage, it is common to experience a lot of ego dissolution and soulful expansion. As the ego relaxes, powerful lessons are learned about the nature of oneself and the nature of the “other.” As you begin learning how to work through your differences, the maturity of your relationship deepens and thus strengthens. It is common to go through stages six and seven many times throughout your relationship.


As the problems in your relationship become increasingly easy to deal with, you will enter a period of soul reunion. In stage eight it is common for you to both find a shared meaning, passion or cause that brings you a mutual sense of fulfillment. As the ego continues to relax, virtues such as forgiveness, understanding, empathy, and patience are learned. The more you both work through each issue that comes your way vigilantly, the more you experience the sensation of “Oneness,” or ego death.

The Twin Flame Fatal Attraction

You will be absolutely swarmed with thoughts of your Twin Flame. By swarmed I quite literally mean 24-7. There are days were you will just want to lay in bed and think about your Twin, and tune into your heart connection. You can not and will not escape this, the more you attempt to push these thoughts and feelings away, the more they will overwhelm you. This is set in place for a reason. You are not MEANT to push these away, you are meant to embrace them, as your Twin will be a part of your life for the duration of your time here on Earth, and thereafter. The Love you feel for this person goes beyond anything you ever thought was possible. You will absolutely LOVE this person with such a fiery passion that nothing and no one would ever be able to change this feeling. It is a complete imprint on the others soul, you have permanently merged yourselves. And the only reason for loving them is simply for who they are. No matter what your “type” is, your Twin will become the most amazingly beautiful and fantastic human being that you have ever encountered. You will have a longing and lust for them that does not fade. You want to merge with them on ALL levels of their being. When twins unite the feelings aren't so much about lust, just a need to show each other how much love there is between them and the best way to express that physically and intimately is though sex. But is it lust though? No, it's unconditional pure love. Twin flames aren't just the ultimate love story, it's a Journey to push each other to their full potential. If you are married at the time of meeting your Twin, your marriage will slowly become more and more unappealing. You will feel as if you are cheating on your Twin whilst being with your spouse. You will only have eyes for your Twin, and being intimate with your partner will become increasingly more difficult. Your soul wants nothing to do with this lower vibrational act of love, regardless of how much you care for your spouse as a person. They will never, ever hold a candle to your Twin Flame. Your mind will try and convince you of the human made laws of marriage, but your soul and heart will put up the rigorous fight to this core value which no longer serves you. You, or they, will have a strong urge to run for the hills. Notice here I said strong urge. If you do become physically separated, it is never for long, and it is always guided. This connection can be very overwhelming, especially in the beginning, and one or both of you will want to retreat back to “your old life”. However, you are here for a higher purpose and the Universe and your Higher Selves were prepared for this. Should you and your Twin separate, this is not permanent. If you have met your Twin Flame in this lifetime, the two of you WILL be together, permanently. There is no “maybe in the next lifetime, we met too soon.” If you have encountered your TRUE Twin Flame, you will reunite as a couple in the physical here and now. You and your Twin will never stay apart long, it is impossible and it goes against the whole reason you incarnated here together and met in the physical. Do you truly believe all of these signs and preparations for the two of you were all for nothing? You will both fulfill your purpose here TOGETHER, United in love. Your Twin will also test your faith, patience, and emotional stability. They do this completely unknowingly, and you agreed to this before you incarnated here. Everything that you need to work on, your Twin will put on display. This will be extremely exaggerated through them, and it is there once again to catch your attention. Whatever you need to work on within yourself will be magnified exponentially so you can get the picture and fix it. Your Twin is your greatest mirror, everything that you accuse them of being, you are accusing yourself of. You yourself are the only one who is with-holding your Union. Your Twin is ready for you as soon as you Align yourself.

In cases where twin Flames are not able to be together; i.e when one or both are married, old relationships, customs and differences in culture, or other hindering situations, it is very tempting to always want to be in the company of each other and sometimes the twin couple ends up crossing the red line because of intense attraction.

Sabotaging the Twin Reunion

There are two factors here. One is it is a Divine Plan which we have made before incarnating, as souls, with our twin flame. We can not easily deviate with it as divine will keep putting you in that path again. Someday you WILL HAVE TO go through all those lessons and learnings which you were supposed to go through in this journey. But there is also FREE WILL. We have all been given a life where we can choose and live our life by our own choices. So what you think and what you do by your own free will, also plays a very important role here. If you try to move away from your twin flame, and do something else, it is up to you. completely.

But there is a possibility that the divine will put you on that path again. (It is like a small child getting away from his baby bed every time, and the mother comes after intervals - and upon finding the baby somewhere else in the room she puts the baby back to the bed where the baby is supposed to be).

Even though we are free to take our own decisions, it is important to be aware of the bigger picture. Otherwise many are just wasting their time and delaying their progress, only because of lack of understanding or lack of patience or faith. Twin flame bond is unbreakable. Whatever you try, it will not break.

What your Twin Flame IS NOT:

  • Your Twin would never, EVER, intentionally hurt you. Emotionally or otherwise. The entirety of this relationship is built on the foundation of unconditional love, and NOTHING else.

  • Your Twin would never lie, cheat, or use you. You are here for a higher purpose and you are both evolved souls, there is no room for things such as these.

  • You will never “date” your Twin and then “break up”. A Twin Flame relationship runs “backwards” in regards to traditional relationships. Union comes at the end, and it is permanent.

Twin Flame Mission

According to my understanding, to raise the vibrations of earth and keep it protected - with the highest vibration - love.

The word mission is taken in a literal way. Like we have to literally physically need to do some work, which everyone can visibly see. Though that can be done, and many twins are doing it, the meaning of “twin flame mission” is much more than that.

The Mission - gets activated when the twin souls encounter. Many things happen on the subtle level - which is changing the vibrations of the earth gradually. Many Twin flames are carrying out their mission without even consciously realizing it.

Every soul can not be on a twin flame mission. There are certain advanced souls who can handle it and do the work on earth. Why at a vital time - that is the time when they have pre decided to get that trigger for themselves. What is happening in your 3D life has nothing to do with your higher purpose. But 3D happenings will trigger you for action which will then take you on to this spiritual journey.

There are several aspects to twin flame mission:

Building and strengthening the New Earth Energetic Grid:

Twin Flames go on a search when they are going through the painful experience of the push and pull and separation phase. This phase has not only the purpose to heal the individuals, it also serves to connect with other twins all over the world to exchange on experiences, helping and supporting each other in the process and in their missions. We are finding our tribe and are cooperating with each other. Twins and light workers are strategically positioned all over the planet to hold, build and fill important locations and portals to support the distribution of the light all over earth.

Supporting Ascension of the Planet and Humanity:

Twin Flames have incarnated to help the planet’s ascension. They are here to help raising the planet’s and humanity’s frequency. Twins carry a very high frequency with them, which intensifies after the first encounter in the physical, when the energies that have been separated for so long, reconnect. It is an explosion of pure unconditional love. That is why it feels so unbelievably fantastic. This high vibe of energy is needed on the planet.

Healing the Family Lineage and the Collective:

Twin flames often incarnate into very dysfunctional families with a large imbalance of masculine and feminine energies. It can be either very abusive or very overprotected. Twin flames chose to experience living in an imbalance to understand how this feels like, as it is needed to help others to ascend later on. When twins awaken and understand their true purpose and start healing themselves, this has an effect on the whole family lineage. Twins change the energetic field and timeline for the whole genetic past and clear it so that the children incarnating through this lineage in the future will be born onto New Earth directly. The same counts for healing collective pain.

Teaching new Relationship and Family Templates:

Twins are here to teach humanity how life on New Earth will be like, outside of the illusions we took for granted for such a long time. Twins are first to reach this balance and then support spreading this via ripple effect and the connection to twins all over the planet. Twins are the role model for a new relationship and family templates, free from dependencies, duties, contracts, compromise. In a world without fear and insecurity, where everyone is valued for what they are, this will be the new normal.

Signs you are close to Union

1. When you think of your Twin Flame, there is zero negativity, sadness, or anger. There is no neediness or obsession, there is only a feeling of love and harmony. All lower vibrations have been cleared out and you feel a sense of renewal within yourself. You just know Union is yours and that you are headed there.

2. You are happy, excited, and elated for no apparent reason. Not much has transpired or changed in your immediate surroundings or circumstances, you are just HAPPY. You are radiating love without any conditions causing you to do so; in other words you have now become unconditional.

3. You are no longer being chased all day, everyday by repeating numbers and synchronicities. Many people find comfort in the signs and syncs, but they are actually there as a course correction and they are there to assist you to get you on your path to Union. 11:11 will still be present but the bombardment of signs will lessen, because you are now on the correct path.

4. Many, if not all aspects of your life have fallen into harmony and Union. Your financial situation, living conditions, and working life are all up to your standards and you are very comfortable and happy exactly where you are.

The Difference between Twin Flames and Soulmate Connections

Vibrationally and energetically both feel different.

Twin Flames

  • Recognition on a soul level.

  • Soul merge and chakras connecting (and feeling flooded by their energy and thoughts of them, without it being obsessive - people sometimes mistake it for obsession but it’s not)magnetic pull.

  • Unconditional love.

  • Energetic amplification (where positive and negative traits are amplified).

  • Emotional triggers and intensity (they trigger you inadvertently in specific ways designed for accelerated growth and development and with the purpose of embodying unconditional love).

  • High intimacy (“too much, too soon”).

  • Telepathy and other types of interaction in the astral plane.

  • Split soul-effect where it literally feels like the other person is you but in a different body (could be male or female)no past lives shared together.

  • Tend to make you feel closer to god aka higher power.

  • There’s also the typical ‘obstacles’ to overcome thru healing and deconditioning (age gap, social status, ethnicity, religion, distance etc.,…)

  • Usually not your type, despite there being this unexplained pull/attraction towards them (and interactions feel kind of like a brother and sister catching up after having been apart for a long time)

  • There’s only one

  • There’s this sense of there being a shared mission to complete or fulfill

  • There’s also this sense of having been separated for a long, long time (which is probably reminiscent and indicative of the initial ‘split’)


  • Sense of familiarity (usually stems from having met them in past lives)

  • Energetic compatibility which has the connection feeling quite effortless, harmonious, pleasant, supportive and fun these people are not meant to trigger you intensely, instead they are meant to help you learn something about life or support you through life)

  • They can be anyone and we have several of them (they could be classmates, neighbors, teachers/mentors, lovers, family, friends even pets), they are people (or beings) you ‘get’ or click with

  • They could have been your partner or a family member in a past lifetime

  • Telepathy may or may not be present (I don’t believe it to be common or typical of a soulmate connection, unless a person is sensitive to this and is aware of such ability - especially those of us who are highly intuitive)

  • All it takes is brutal self honesty to tell the difference, and to also stop analyzing and start feeling and sensing instead.


To clear up any further confusion about what a “twin flame” relationship really is. Unlike “soul mates,” which are our perfect matches (or our spiritual family) twin flames are our perfect mirrors. Relationships with twin flames tend to be on-again-off-again, intensely passionate, and sometimes intensely painful. Twin flames help us awaken like nobody else, and they ultimately serve to show us who we really are. Here, a few of the main signs that you’ve run into one:

1. You are intensely drawn to them. Without any real cause or reason, you feel as though you’ve known this person before, even if you just met.

2. They have opened you up to a completely new way of thinking. With them, you exchange ideas, beliefs, religion, and so on. You’ve “awakened” because of their love.

3. They come in and out of your life. You’re together, and then you’re not, and then you are again. Despite the fact that you love each other more than anything, one of you (the “runner”) seems to not be able to handle it, and dissolve the relationship. It’s almost as though your connection is too intense for you to be consistently together.

4. They feel like home. Upon meeting them, you immediately sense that you’ve known this person before. Your connection is too intense for you to have just been strangers – there is a deep feeling of familiarity when you’re with them.

5. You are the epitome of yin and yang. They seem just like your other half, the parts of you that were missing all along. (What you’ve yet to realize is that they are the parts of you you’ve yet to know.)

6. Looking back, you see that the period of time right after you’re with them is always defined by change. They bring about a lot of intense transformation in your life, sometimes painfully so.

7. You will find yourself becoming almost irrationally emotional when you’re with them. (These are the feelings and energies that have been in suppression, which they are there in part to help you recognize and heal.)

8. Your bond is instantaneous, and your relationship moves very quickly. Right off the bat, you “click” as though you’ve known one another forever. This only grows over time, and the more you get to know about them, the more absolutely in love you are.

9. Though you experience incredible passion for this person, there is an equal amount of worry and uncertainty. You may find yourself questioning a lot, asking yourself whether or not this is really love, or really what you want for your life.

10. It seems like you have this profound connection that must be destined, but you come into one another’s life at the wrong time, or something else stands in the way of you being together. This is not a product of ill fate, rather, it is a sign that you’re not meant to be together in the way you think you should. (The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing.)

11. You are more than just lovers. You are one another’s teachers, best friends, therapists, and so on. You have such a deep and layered connection that you do a lot more for one another than just be romantic.

12. It seems like you’re always pulled back to them in one way or another.

13. Your relationship can be tumultuous at times. This is because your twin flame serves to show you everything that needs to be healed within you. This is not to be confused with “love” being painful. Love is not painful. Everything that stands in the way can be, though.

14. One of you is more “spiritual” than the other. One is more soulful, the other more practical. You teach one another the virtues of how you think and behave – that is part of your purpose.

15. You feel very attuned to them, almost telepathically. You can feel what they’re feeling, or know what they’re thinking. It’s as though you are one.

16. When you look into their eyes, you feel like you see family, or your own child. This is your soul recognizing someone it’s known before, or someone it’s very close to.

17. For as different as you are, you have many fundamental things in common. Maybe you were born on their favorite brother’s birthday, or you met on a very significant weekend. Maybe you both went to the same type of elementary and high school, or you had the same college major. One or two of these things could just be coincidence, but with a twin flame, you’ll probably have many overlapping similarities.

18. They show you what you most desire as well as what you most fear. Their purpose is not (and has never been) to make you feel “settled” or comfortable, but to help introduce you to yourself.

If you have a twin flame, you are fated to meet this person at some point in your life journey. The two of you will be pulled together like magnets! You will know when you’ve connected with this person because you’ll immediately experience a sense of recognition. Many people describe an uncanny sense of having known their twin flame all their lives. When you encounter the person who carries the other half of your energy, it can create a profound and life-altering sense of wholeness.

Your relationship will naturally be extremely intense because twin flames are mirrors of one another. This person will not only provide a sense of wholeness; they will also elevate your self-knowledge, including knowledge of your flaws. Consequently, there’s a potential for conflict as well as happiness. Rest assured that it is possible to have a happy, healthy relationship with your twin flame. However, this is only possible if you can learn to love yourself, as your twin flame is part of you. This love must be honest and unconditional!

Otherwise, a part of you will always be driven to reject your twin flame.


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