More than ever I’m hearing my friends say that the dating options out here are lacking. I’m inclined to agree but it’s the lack of honesty and self awareness that blows my mind. Know your damn self before you open your mouth to say what you can offer. If you have no personal self care routine that you practice daily, then you are not ready for a relationship. If you don’t have a time budget or a money budget, you aren’t ready for a relationship. Without the knowledge AND care of your spiritual, emotional and physical well being, you’re just someone who wants to fill a void vs creating with someone equally self aware and enjoying life’s blissful moments. The former will always create disarray and problems.
Self awareness is key.